Monograms are a huge trend in weddings, to the point where they feature strongly in some, and in others, provide the actual theme. And what's not to like about monograms? They're elegant, understated, versatile, and a dramatic visual reminder of your new life together.
Ideas for including monograms
You'll find them popping up in more and more places throughout the reception, and sometimes even prior to it. Here are some ways that brides include monograms:
- embossed, stamped or printed bridal stationary
- custom postage stamps (see www.funstamps.com)
- stationary seals or stickers
- painted aisle runners
- printed bridal bouquet ribbons
- bridal underwear or garter
- bridal handkerchief
- accent to bridal train, veil or gown
- ring bearer's pillow
- stamped or printed out-of-town bags
- bridesmaids' totes
- guestbook
- engraved guestbook pen
- tablecloths
- chair covers
- place cards and menus
- cocktail napkins
- coasters
- centerpieces
- engraved cake server set
- cake embellishment
- wood, wire, metal, chocolate or acrylic monogram cake topper
- monogram wreaths of silk or real flowers
- fabric wall or door banners
- champagne flutes
- bottled water labels
- "tears of joy" packs
- monogrammed wedding favors: cookies, ornaments, shot glasses, votive candles, chocolates, petit fours, notepads, favor boxes
- dance floor "gobo" projections
How do I get a monogram?
You make it! Many brides find they can "roll their own" using a readily-available software program such as Microsoft Word or PowerPoint. If you're a graphic designer or have access to high-end tools, you'd probably prefer Adobe Illustrator, but Word or PowerPoint are also fine. If you've played around but don't like the results, call on an arty friend.
To design your monogram in Microsoft Word:
Choose Insert -> Textbox. Type and format the letter the way you like it. Do this three times. Now click on all textboxes and choose Format->Textbox. Choose Color: No Fill (so you can overlap letters) and Line: No Line. Select all letters, right click, and choose Group to lock in the arrangement. You can now copy your image into Microsoft Paint and save in several formats, such as JPEG.
To design your monogram in PowerPoint:
You'll want to use "Word Art" to create your letters. Click on the blue tilted "A" on the bottom toolbar for each letter. Format them to your liking. When you're done designing, select all the letters, right-click, and choose Grouping->Group. Now you can click on your image and right-click for Save as Image. PowerPoint lets you save directly in formats like JPEG, PNG and TIFF.
Some more design tips:
The bride's initial goes first in a monogram. When the bride takes the groom's last name, the order is: bride's first initial, shared last initial (usually larger), groom's first initial.
If the bride keeps her own last name, one option is four-initial monogram (bride's first, bride's last, groom's last, groom's first). Or just join the couple's first names with an ampersand (Jenny & Mike).
Some etiquette tips:
It's somewhat frowned upon to use your couples monogram before you're actually married. So, your reception's clearly a green light, but you might want to skip using it on your invites. The ceremony itself is sort of a Ms. Manners gray area. Some brides uphold the spirit (if not the letter) of the "law" by including the monogram in a not-so-public ceremonial spot, such as a garter, or inside the dress.
Of course, these being modern times, some brides just include the monogram wherever and whenever they want.
Great places to get the fancy fonts brides crave, for free:
www.dafont.com/en/
www.chank.com/freefonts.php
www.abstractfonts.com/fonts/< /p>
instant.coffeecup.com/content/fonts/
www.1001freefonts.com
DIY monogrammed aisle runner
It's not hard to create your own monogrammed aisle runner, and it makes a big splash. If you have a sewing machine, you can buy and hem the fabric for next to nothing. Now you just need some fabric paint in black or your wedding colors, a pencil, an exacto knife and some cardstock. You also need to decide where you want to place the monogram. Some aisle runners feature a monogram at the bottom, where the procession begins; the top, where the couple stands; and in the middle.
Print out your monogram and blow it up to your desired size on a copying machine. (If your aisle fabric is on the sheer side, you can now trace your monogram directly onto the fabric with pencil. Fill in with fabric paint, and you're done.) Otherwise, tape the enlarged monogram onto the cardstock and cut out the shape with an exacto knife. Trace inside your new template lightly with pencil. Fill in with fabric paint. Follow the same procedure to make your own monogrammed table runners or even chair covers.
The dance floor monogram
A dramatic and memorable way to include your monogram is to project it onto the dance floor during the reception. As fun as this is, though, it's not cheap and sometimes not easy. To project a monogram, you need to buy a custom metal plate, called a "gobo." Custom gobo manufacturers are easily found online. The gobo itself usually costs over $100, but once made, you then need specific lights equipped with a pattern holder to use the gobo. It's possible that your venue, or your DJ, will be able to provide these lights or help you locate a place from which to rent them.
A final tip
Now that you have some ideas for incorporating monograms in your wedding, remember the essence of elegance is restraint. It's easy to overdo monograms, so mix them up contrasting touches, such as soft and romantic floral arrangements, to warm up the monogram's cool and classic feel.
About the Author Blake Kritzberg is editor at "FavorIdeas.com." Stop by for a huge selection of wedding favors, Bridezilla's weekly adventures, and free resources for brides: save-the-date eCards, screensaver, wallpaper and web site templates. http://www.favorideas.com
O'Hare affordable limousine ..The exact origin of the wedding ring is uncertain and... Read More
Your wedding invitations are your announcement to family and friends... Read More
I say always register for gifts! You see, people tend... Read More
You've gotten engaged and have set the wedding date and... Read More
Cookies as wedding favors, create an unique twist on the... Read More
When Maria Callas first appeared on the international scene, she... Read More
1. Start with a nice clean piece of paper (lavender... Read More
You've found the perfect venue: old oaks, a stone wall,... Read More
Speculation continues about the break-up of Brad Pitt and Jennifer... Read More
Marriage and Attraction: Relation is successful as long as there... Read More
A little strategizing can go a long way when trying... Read More
Selecting a wedding ring isn't as easy as it looks.... Read More
The vows you take to become husband and wife are... Read More
There is a huge array of diamond wedding rings available... Read More
Symbols! Weddings are full of them. Exchanging rings. Exchanging roses.... Read More
Henry Vlll and Elizabeth Taylor, who between them had fourteen... Read More
One of the biggest on-going problems for couples is how... Read More
Before George W Bush became a President, John Quincy Adams... Read More
Biologically, a coupling between male and female (with some very... Read More
Depending on your personal preferences and the preferences of your... Read More
There is nothing more romantic than a wedding by water... Read More
So you're having a wedding anniversary. Congratulations! It's quite a... Read More
Have you ever had to give a wedding speech? As... Read More
In the last article, we concluded by saying that keeping... Read More
Deciding the menu is a pretty simple affair. Once you've... Read More
affordable limo Bensenville ..Wedding rings are a symbol of union. A union between... Read More
The exact origin of the wedding ring is uncertain and... Read More
Your wedding is nine months away and you decide to... Read More
"Las Vegas hotel weddings give you tons of options. You... Read More
India is a diverse, multi-cultural country with people of various... Read More
Wedding favors have evolved over time. Wedding favors today combine... Read More
It's safe to say that out of all the events... Read More
When I was the owner of a major wedding facility,... Read More
One of the good things about Las Vegas Wedding Packages... Read More
Not only do individuals who follow Time Magazine's "Eight Steps... Read More
If you forget the ring, there is still a chance... Read More
People are looking for life-long relationships in the most peculiar... Read More
A 2005 mother of bride dress tends to have a... Read More
Here are five seeds of a great marriage from grandmother.... Read More
The wedding day is the day that most women wait... Read More
Homemade wedding favors come from a centuries old tradition of... Read More
The kids are yelling, the dog is barking, and you... Read More
OverviewI suppose a typical Christian wedding in the UK can... Read More
Wedding centerpieces help tie together the look of your entire... Read More
These verses of Scripture from St. Paul are commonly used... Read More
When two people - destined for each other, come together,... Read More
Need a quick idea to dress up a mediocre wedding?... Read More
You are locked in your seat on the most famous... Read More
Once upon a time a caveman, while out for a... Read More
The big day is fast approaching, and the energy of... Read More
Marriage & Wedding |